Gender-blind housing policy
Amy Weston
Issue date: 2/25/09 Section: Opinions
I'm going to get right down to business here. It's spring semester, and that means room draw. For those of you who have not really considered the nature of this ritual or who have yet to experience it, I will outline it. First, each student must pick his or her poison. Will I enter my name in the chem-free draw? Dialogue? Regular? Once the student has weighed the options and decided, he or she is randomly assigned a number. The lower numbers get to choose first, starting with the rising senior assigned number 1 and going down through the classes.
Each student is also assigned a letter. The letter determines which rooms he or she is eligible to choose from. The floor plans that are spread out on room draw night are labeled with corresponding letters: some are labeled "M," others are labeled "F." While it may not necessarily seem so at first, this policy is discriminatory and quite distressing for certain students.
The obvious inequality of gender quotas in rooming falls on transgendered students-particularly those who identify as "gender queer" or otherwise don't adhere to a binary system of gender. Room draw forces transgender people into a category, requires them to deny the identities they know themselves to be and adopt a false identity that determines what they are and aren't allowed to do. This process denies transgender students the right to be themselves. Colby's non-discrimination policy includes gender identity, but the housing policy fails to live up to this. All gender identities-not just male and female-must be honored.
The housing policy is further troubled by gay, lesbian, bisexual and other sexually variant students. I will outline it for you: a lesbian student and her girlfriend are able to live in the same room, regardless of what this may imply. A heterosexual couple, however, must live with at least one locking door between them. At first glance it seems here that the heterosexual couple is being wronged, denied a "right" that their lesbian friends enjoy. But really what this situation reveals is a set of assumptions and prejudices not only about gays and lesbians but about college students in general. As far as keeping the genders separated in the dorms by a door, I ask, "What's the point?" If they want to, couples will still sleep in the same bed. And if you are worried about a male student taking advantage of his female roommate in her sleep (a fairly absurd suggestion), I wonder why you are not worried about a lesbian student doing the same thing.
Each student is also assigned a letter. The letter determines which rooms he or she is eligible to choose from. The floor plans that are spread out on room draw night are labeled with corresponding letters: some are labeled "M," others are labeled "F." While it may not necessarily seem so at first, this policy is discriminatory and quite distressing for certain students.
The obvious inequality of gender quotas in rooming falls on transgendered students-particularly those who identify as "gender queer" or otherwise don't adhere to a binary system of gender. Room draw forces transgender people into a category, requires them to deny the identities they know themselves to be and adopt a false identity that determines what they are and aren't allowed to do. This process denies transgender students the right to be themselves. Colby's non-discrimination policy includes gender identity, but the housing policy fails to live up to this. All gender identities-not just male and female-must be honored.
The housing policy is further troubled by gay, lesbian, bisexual and other sexually variant students. I will outline it for you: a lesbian student and her girlfriend are able to live in the same room, regardless of what this may imply. A heterosexual couple, however, must live with at least one locking door between them. At first glance it seems here that the heterosexual couple is being wronged, denied a "right" that their lesbian friends enjoy. But really what this situation reveals is a set of assumptions and prejudices not only about gays and lesbians but about college students in general. As far as keeping the genders separated in the dorms by a door, I ask, "What's the point?" If they want to, couples will still sleep in the same bed. And if you are worried about a male student taking advantage of his female roommate in her sleep (a fairly absurd suggestion), I wonder why you are not worried about a lesbian student doing the same thing.
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